Today’s pop culture, the likes and selfies of social media breed a culture cut off from life that leads to unmitigated narcissism and envy. Gossiping is a sure sign you are asleep and part of a powerful self-destructive myth, named by Freud “Destrudo,” a misdirection of the libido and creative force. This is a powerful self-annihilating aspect bourn of the drama concomitant with the consensus trance. Those who gossip, are envious, jealous and caught in highly configured narcissism and impotent rage. Those who gossip are leaky containers and cannot be trusted. They feed on their own self-destruction and destroying others.
Someone once asked if I had any openings for employment. During the conversation they mentioned that they had heard certain things about my personal life. I do not hire people who gossip and that was the end of the interview.
Occasionally, I’ll hear that a client is gossiping. Adults got over gossiping in high school. I’m clear at that point that they are not ready to be part of our seminars and groups. Those who gossip are dangerous, as they cannot be trusted, it is childish behavior. A four year old is driving the car, and they will take themselves and everyone around them down.
Gossiping is self-betrayal. If you gossip, or listen to gossip, ask yourself why you need to destroy yourself, your business, or someone else and their business? Tearing someone down, with gossip, is all about you and your repressed self-loathing. If you have something to say about someone, muster the courage and honesty to say it to their face.
Gossip has nothing to do with reality. You listen to someone else gossip about me or anyone else and you participate in their projection, a story of self-betrayal. I am amazed at the stories people make up about others, so they don’t have to take responsibility for their own actions. This is a form of addiction to staying stuck.
The classes, the movement and the video help you discover the mythologies of self-objectification and the object relationships that perpetuate your suffering and self-loathing. Once seen, you have an opportunity to just stop the envy, the jealously, the suffering, and connect with your innate nature, which is conscious, beyond story, happy, free and unlimited.
Pathological envy, is a compound emotion. It is brought on by the realization of some lack, deficiency, or inadequacy in oneself. It is the result of unfavorably comparing oneself to others: to their success, their reputation, their possessions, their luck, their qualities. It is misery and humiliation and impotent rage and a tortuous, slippery path to nowhere. The effort to break the padded walls of this self-visited purgatory often leads to attacks on the perceived source of frustration.
Adults Tell the Truth
Successful Adults realize they are accountable for everything in their experience. They self-actualize their creative vision. They own their spiritual power. They create their own reality. They tell the truth, without blame or judgement…………. They empower others with that truth. For them playing the victim and gossip is a thing of the very distant past.